LOVE-LUST=> LIVE-IN......... VALENTINE?

Woah woah… love is all around me…. 
Nooo I am not in love.
But Valentine’s Day is around the corner. So most of the happening places are fully decorated in Delhi .

Not all only this, open the newspaper, you’ll see all the great offers like take your partner for holiday at great price….book your table …. Couple entry charges… and blah blahhhhhh…


Not only this even online, you open any site, all the flashy colored background showing all the red and pinky-pinky themes… oh man seriously, it is annoying man.

It was time, when Valentine’s Day was only celebrated in western country. But now it is celebrated like any other festival. Only difference is, this day is only for couples.
Valentine’s day is all about love, relationship, commitment and the love that we all want from a partner is not possible without both having the commitment  to try to make it last.
The oldest institution on earth concerning human relationships is marriage that has survived all odds all over the world. Despite doubts raised by people who suffer failure in marriage, strangely it is something that most aspire to reach at some point in their life. Those who fail once, wish to try it the second or even third time. I am not talking of western countries where celebrities get into multiple marriages for the sake of money offered for scoops.


So what is it that makes marriage desirable? Why not just live in together and walk away when it becomes inconvenient? Why get married and then suffer the trauma of divorce if you are incompatible? Why suffer idiosyncrasies of your partner? Why spend rest of your life with a person whose wavelength doesn’t match yours? Why travel half way to make up rather than walk away whenever you want? These choices are available in Live in relationships.

No one has complete control on things and situations around. This includes the choice to have a perfect and/or ideal mate. We would all like to have a person as our life-partner who is perfect in our eyes in all possible aspects. But is it actually possible? Isn't it only a wishful thought? And are we ourselves perfect?


Many people imagine that living together before marriage resembles taking a car for a test drive. The “trial period” gives people a chance to discover whether they are compatible. This analogy seems so compelling that people are unable to interpret the mountains of data to the contrary. 

Here’s the problem with the car analogy: the car doesn’t have hurt feelings if the driver dumps it back at the used car lot and decides not to buy it. The analogy works great if you picture yourself as the driver. It stinks if you picture yourself as the car. 
"Only Fools think in terms of negality", otherwise love is enough..

Oh Metro! stop snatching our purses.......

Travelling in Bus is not so happening thing for me ........ But I do have to travel sometimes when the situation is of paramount importance....I have been the one who has always avoided buses in DELHI.
Can’t imagine myself wrapped up in sweat-trickling, stinking arm-pits....  green house box....
I have always preferred metro as a more convenient option ...but its reputation is under the hammer now a days


The crowd has suddenly grown in numbers. A metro which was like a yawning HONEYMOON bed has suddenly seen a rush of people...Standing in the lines exposes you to rude, pushy generally older ones, who simply push their way ahead of you. Many a time feels like giving them back... (.Our Indian culture doesn't permit me to be disrespectful to our elder...and they  always benefit from this)....Survival of the fittest is the criteria to breathe inside....Oxygen is quite difficult to intake with so many people to absorb it...in such a consoled place...............



People have lost their values or they leave their head at homes....seats which are reserved for handicapped and women are preoccupied by the men who are strong enough to be pulled up by crane. Women are left standing with a heavy bag in one hand and a baby on her shoulder .Travelling with your girl is not the brightest of the idea...in this obnoxious crowd ( I say that from my experience).People are ready to grab their chances in a win-win situation. 


I don’t really rely on any public transportation in terms of security and protection. Not even this Metro. Recent incident taught me all. I lost my wallet in Metro; some jerk took out from my bag.


Arrgghhhh… I wanna kill that jerk whosoever did this.


You not only took my wallet but also all the important articles, which includes my pan card, licensee, atm card, sport club card and very important membership card, on which I sent so much to gain some point for discount but now all gone. 



Moreover, Delhi Police was as usual very corporative, it just that for logging one F.I.R., it took me 5 hours.. 
I reached office late with not so good mood. 
Anyways,, hope that jerk use some brain and sent back my wallet articles which are useless for him/her.
Figure crossed.

IS IT DESTINY OR IS IT CHOICE?

Every little girl dreams about her wedding day, complete with of a beautiful wedding dress and of course a perfect man by her side. 

Same for the lady i met recently. She is my cousin best friend. She is undoubtedly smart, beautiful and very loving women but sadly she is suffering from cancer that too last stage. She was just 4 year old when her parents got to know about her sickness. But her parents never gave up. They sent her to school, college but with extra care. 


And at last she got married in a beautiful dress and with a perfect man. 
But only drawback to her wedding was, her family never shared her health problem with the groom family. 
And this affected her wedding after 8 months, when she shared this with her husband and his family.
The male family was hurt and so was the girl. She never wanted to do this the family.
She got so much of love and affection. But the male family felt cheated and betrayed. 

Today when she wants to live her last few months with her husband and his family, they are not supporting her and on the other side she is suffering from so much pain & stress. She is a very strong woman but she needs strong support from her husband and her family. It’s time for her husband to support her during this painful phase, so that she can live her last few months with love and care.


All I can say, i felt bad .I feel compassionate for both the parties.. On one side the girl father did all wrong, and on other side her husband family has the right to think about their desire & their future as they are also equally hurt. 
I am grateful to have had the honor of writing this blog for her and for her husband.


Hope everything goes well ahead. 
Destiny!!!!! Choice!!!!!

God and FACEBOOK

You have showed me another side of me.

Another side I never thought I could be.

I wanna change, rearrange.

I know I can be something.

I know (I know, I know) I'm getting better.

You can say what you believe.

Tell me I'm not worth it, maybe I'd agree.

Well i know that it's just stones.

No they wont break my bones.

You can say it all you want.

I love myself today, no matter what you say.

I love myself today, and it feels so good.

There are people who are obviously using their profiles on networking sites to create an image. They are trying to show that they are happening people.

Some are simply irritated by all the drama on the web, I  know people who tweet every 20-30 minutes, and you know exactly when the got up because their first tweet of the day is posted, and then you know what they had for breakfast. A friend mine once tweeted that his relationship with his girl was over, that was even when before she got out of his car.

Breaking up with someone is not a hush-hush thing anymore, and with social networking websites, it's a war of inflated and hurt egos. "A friend, after his break-up started dating a someone else, this got the ex fuming and she too made a new boyfriend. And obviously everyone in the friends circle knew it was as if they were competing to put pictures with their new partners on their profiles.

Well, the verdict is out, time to tone it down a bit guys? Lol…..

I see girls taking constant pics of themselves, making what is quite honestly stupid poses with usually their lips pouted out. Am I the only one who finds this strange and quite honestly retarded?

Many females especially teenage females want attention. So they take pictures of themselves as a way to feel better. But what many teens do is go a step beyond taking photos. They not only take photos of themselves, but they share the photos with other peers, and they post on the internet. Many teen girls do this because they lack self esteem and they are looking for someone to confirm that they are indeed beautiful. Now there is nothing wrong with taking photos of yourself. But the problem only arises when you do it to get attention because you feel badly about yourself and you want someone to affirm you.

The height of self obsession:

An Egyptians blogger Aliaa Magda Elmahdy has become a household name in the middle east. She shared a global uproar after a friend posted a photo of her naked on Twitter. She first posted her pictures on her blog.

Previously god was always on our minds, it used to be mirror of own reflection but today facebook has become the new god, the FACE, the BOOK where everyone wants each moment of its FACE.

HUNTING…. KILLING.. AND NO SHAME..

Tiger our national animal is fighting for its life. From around 40000 at the turn of the last century, there are just 1411 left now.

As very few tigers are left in India and if we won’t act now, we could lose important part of our heritage forever.
Tigers are facing major population losses and extinction. Tigers are killed for sport, skins and body parts.

At the turn of the century, there were almost reportedly 40000 to 45000 tigers in India, but now there very few left. 


Tigers is the symbol of wilderness and well being of the eco system..


By saving tigers the entire wilderness ecosystem is conserved.


The tiger is not just a charismatic species. It’s not just a wild animal living in some forest either.
It is been unofficial stated that forest department is also involved in it. Not only that but also few well profiled people too. The Forest officials are wiping out all the evidence of poaching and taking bribe for the same. 


                                        HUNTING…. KILLING.. AND NO SHAME..


There are lot of NGO and individual who have been saving them society, Not to mention the Bachchan’s itself who himself involved to protect the species, Richard Branson has taken many step ahead to protect to the species, not only the tigers but other species as well. 

The tiger is a beautiful animal but it is also the indicator of the forest’s health.Saving the Tiger means we save the forest since tiger cannot live in places where trees have vanished and in turn secure food and water for all.


The Tiger this becomes the symbol for the protection of all species on our earth since it is at the top of the food chain. This is why we sometimes call the tiger, an apex predator, and an indicator of our ecosystem’s health.

Sach….in….Kambli …. out

Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar is an Indian cricketer widely regarded as one of the greatest batsmen in the history of cricket. He is the leading run-scorer and century maker in Test and one-day international cricket. He is the only male player to score a double century in the history of ODI cricket.

Tendulkar was an integral part of the  Cricket World Cup winning Indian team at the later part of his career, his first such win in six World Cup appearances for India. 


Tendulkar is the first and the only player in Test Cricket history to score fifty centuries, and the first to score fifty centuries in all international crickets combined; he now has 99 centuries (48 ODI & 51 Test cricket) in international cricket. 

Tendulkar has been honoured with the Padma Vibhushan award, India's second highest civilian award, and the Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratnaaward, India's highest sporting honour. Tendulkar became the first sportsperson and the first person without an aviation background to be awarded the honorary rank of Group Captain by the Indian Air Force and many more achievement & awards.

Sachin Tendulkar on 8th Nov achieved another milestone as he became the first cricketer in the history of the game to cross 15,000-run mark in Test cricket.

Playing in his 182nd match, Tendulkar reached the mark on the third day of the first Test against the West Indies when he scored his 28th run in India's second innings with a single off leg-spinner Devendra Bishoo. 

After crossing the coveted milestone, the batting maestro looked up at the heavens and acknowledged the standing ovation given by his teammates from the dressing room as his partner Rahul Dravid congratulated him.

The West Indian players also came up after the completion of the over to congratulate the iconic batsman.
Tendulkar was 35 runs short of 15,000 before this match and he scored seven in the first innings before being adjudged leg-before off Fidel Edwards.

With a 14,422 capacity crowd cheering him, Tendulkar, who came in at the fall of Virender Sehwag's wicket when the team total was 95 for two, played cautiously with India needing 276 runs to win the match.

He hit just two fours after facing 76 balls to reach 28. The 38-year-old Tendulkar, the world's most prolific batsman, now needs just one hundred to complete a historic 100 international tons. He has scored 51 Test tons and 48 ODI hundreds.

Rahul Dravid, who was batting at the other end with Tendulkar, is the second highest run-getter in Tests with 12,859 runs while Australian Ricky Ponting is third on the list with 12487 runs.

Let's Play With Our Star

Astrology;
Astrology is based on universal, timeless symbolism, and speaks to us on deep and meaningful levels, as artistic expression often does.

In our daily life experiences, each one of us can recognize and directly experience the astounding variety in which the omnipresent astrological symbolism continuously manifests itself. With some basic astrological knowledge and practice, we can develop a sense of how alive astrology is. This process enhances curiosity and a fresh, childlike, and ‘beginner's mind' approach to learning how these symbols keep coming to life, in the world around and within us. Learning about astrology experimentally is an exciting process I have been fascinated with for many years.


We can also engage in creatively expressing these universal symbols (especially signs and planets), through artistic media (like collages) or drama, and thus become an artist or actor of astrology - while avoiding the temptation of  over identifying with them, and becoming 'archetype possessed'.


Astrology Promotes Healing


Healing is derived from ‘becoming whole' (again). Wholeness is healthy.


It is a basic principle of healing to honor and support the parts of the body and psyche in their integration into the whole of a human being, so that they can fulfill their purpose to sustain well-being.


Astrology offers ways to understand ourselves or others better, by carefully looking at the wholeness of a human being as a wonderful, unique composition of the different sides and functions of a personality that is always more than the sum of its parts. Humanistic, psychological astrology has therefore a holistic, synthesizing, and synergistic approach. It shows how the parts relate to one another, how they keep unfolding over time, and how this process contributes to our life creation.


By honoring the path and meaning of one's life, the insights gained through astrology can be an important starting point for the healing process of oneself or of a relationship with a significant other.


In relationships, astrology can help heal (making whole) the relationship, by recognizing and acknowledging the individual contributions, as well as the ‘character' of the relationship as a  co-created 'product' of the partners. –
• Astrology is not a religion, it is belief, means a feeling that something exists or is true, especially one without proof it does not relate to the study of astrology, therefore some believe in astrology and some don’t.
• Lal kitab; it is the name of five books which expounded unique system of Indian astrology now known as Lal Kitab system of astrology.
• People believe in astrology, starting what your name tells about your personality, what colors suits you, what is you lucky number? And so on.
• Starting from Tarot card reading to numerology, people believe in it. 

• Interestingly, using just birth time and place, he seemed to come up with the correct identify of the mystery guest more often than anyone, & I wondered what that was. 


Or you may want to order a special exclusive report based on your birth details on a voluntary donation of  say  $2.00  by clicking here.  If you cannot afford, of course, it's free. The report will indicate suitable gems on the basis of:
• Sun sign (Western Astrology)
• Ascendant or Lagna (Hindu Astrology)
• Moon Sign or Rasi
• Dasa also called Mahadasa (Period)
• Birth Number (Numerology)

And so on. 


Not only this, there are birthstones . The idea of a birthstone connected with the month of your birth is based in traditional astrology. Each stone has its own unique character and abilities too. Some stones are healers; others are aids to concentration; some are warriors; some are good for business. 

Wearing the stone of your sign will focus the energies of the sign through the gem, enabling their expression in your daily life. The energy of the sign is channeled through the planet placed there (usually the Sun, Moon, or planetary ruler) and this energy is expressed and focused through the corresponding gem.


Then comes the TAROT CARD READING; 

no-one really knows how Tarot works. It really doesn't matter how they work; tarot readings can help provide you with a clear reflection of your past, present and future projections, and help you to reflect on your experiences, and hence gain a fresh prospective on your life.