Monday 9 January 2012

IS IT DESTINY OR IS IT CHOICE?

Every little girl dreams about her wedding day, complete with of a beautiful wedding dress and of course a perfect man by her side. 


Same for the lady i met recently. She is my cousin best friend. She is undoubtedly smart, beautiful and very loving women but sadly she is suffering from cancer that too last stage. She was just 4 year old when her parents got to know about her sickness. But her parents never gave up. They sent her to school, college but with extra care. 


And at last she got married in a beautiful dress and with a perfect man. 
But only drawback to her wedding was, her family never shared her health problem with the groom family. 
And this affected her wedding after 8 months, when she shared this with her husband and his family.
The male family was hurt and so was the girl. She never wanted to do this the family.
She got so much of love and affection. But the male family felt cheated and betrayed. 


Today when she wants to live her last few months with her husband and his family, they are not supporting her and on the other side she is suffering from so much pain & stress. She is a very strong woman but she needs strong support from her husband and her family. It’s time for her husband to support her during this painful phase, so that she can live her last few months with love and care.


All I can say, i felt bad .I feel compassionate for both the parties.. On one side the girl father did all wrong, and on other side her husband family has the right to think about their desire & their future as they are also equally hurt. 
I am grateful to have had the honor of writing this blog for her and for her husband.


Hope everything goes well ahead. 
Destiny!!!!! Choice!!!!!







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