Don’t know how this war will get a full-stop

We People talk about humanity, unity and equality and peace.

But we are the same people who destroy everything with our action every day.

The biggest example of humanity disaster is happening in Syria.

 Fighting between forces loyal to President Bashar Assad and members of the Free Syrian Army continue in Syria. 

From more than year back this civil war got started and it’s like never ending war. Every day we hear one or the other news for the same.

From CNN news to BCC news everyday there is millions for news “-99 people were shot down”, “66 people are injured”, “women survivors of sexual violence and abuse”..

The U.N. estimates that Syria’s crackdown has killed more than 7,500 people so far.

Western diplomats are now warning that Syria is on the brink of all-out civil war and that this would be likely to "morph into a proxy war in the region". This could have wider economic ramifications and in particular interact with the Euro zone crisis in ways that are under-discussed in the UK.

A Syrian civil war could well draw in the following countries either directly or as sponsors of one or other parties in the conflict.

The most obvious are Iran, Lebanon, Kurdish Iraq, and Turkey.

And the Syrians, having involved themselves in the Jordanian civil war in 1970 might find that what goes around comes around.

But this entire crisis is majorly affecting the normal citizen.

Even women and children are the major victim of the disaster.

Women are facing the problem from sexual violence and abuse.

International Rescue Committee teams to assess humanitarian needs and to provide emergency medical care, shelter and other aid to refugees who are camped out on the Syrian border in frigid winter temperatures. IRC experts on women’s protection will join these teams shortly and will provide assistance to women survivors of sexual violence and abuse.

Syria launched a long-anticipated assault to crush the opposition in the rebellious north, bombarding its main city with tank shells from all sides and clashing with rebel fighters struggling to hold back an invasion.

President Bashar Assad rejected any immediate negotiations with the opposition, striking a further blow to already staggering international efforts for talks to end the conflict. Assad told U.N. envoy Kofi Annan that a political solution is impossible as long as “terrorist groups” threaten the country.

Don’t know how this war will get a full-stop.

Will this ever going get end…will this civil war will end on peace or bring bigger disaster?

Tapping the Mouse

Shopping is always happening idea to spend my Sunday. 


But as time passed by, i don't get time to do the same due to my work which occupied me so much now days. 
And the easiest way of enjoy shopping now is through internet. I really can't get away from shopping. It’s an addiction which cannot be removed my life. 

Anyways, my point was to tell you the interesting thing which is growing drastically all over the world. 
E-PORTAL website, there are hundreds of online shopping website like e-bay, yebhi, bestylish, zovi , flipkart and so many yet to be launched portal like DAILY BASKET , where you just have to click and shop.
Anyone can get anything right from safety pin to rare orchids just tapping the mouse. This is an era of online portal and digital marketing.


With the growth of the Internet and home PC’s, more and more people are enjoying the benefits of shopping online.

Anyways my point is to tell my new interest/way of shopping i.e., e-portal website. With growing competitive environment of the society, people hardly get time for them and spend maximum time online. 
A lot of things can be done online, from getting the latest news, to finding friends, to falling in love, to getting even the basics ... like food. These days though, what are truly thriving are online clothes shopping. One can easily get the latest trend and where you can buy it online. Convenience is one of the main reasons why more and more people are turning to online shopping.


There are many reasons why I enjoying shopping & choose to shop online instead of going to the mall. 
One great thing about online shopping is that it is convenient. No driving to the store, no fighting for a parking spot, and no dealing with crowds of people. You can shop whenever you want, 24 hours a day instead of being restricted to store hours. You can also purchase items from all over the world, which allows you to find things you couldn’t get at a local store.

Online shopping also makes it easier to compare pricing on items all without leaving your home! You could spend hours and use lots of gas trying to comparison shop at local stores. You don’t even have to write the info down because you can just open up more than one browser window at a time to compare them. Some sites will even provide comparison charts for you that can save you even more time.
Another great advantage for online shopping is the ability to have your items express shipped so you can get them fast. Sure it may cost a little more but sometimes it’s necessary if the items are needed quickly.

You can also have your items already gift wrapped for you, and have them enclose gift cards and even ship the gifts to their intended recipient for you! Many online stores will also include a gift receipt in the even they should need to exchange it.
Not only this there are many website, many option for online shopping. You’ll find so many options to shop, with great discounts and offers on big brands as well. 
It saves time and money both. 

Today, if one search for online shopping website, he could find 100 website and so many website yet to launch. 
Yesterday only I saw one mail of UPCOMING E-PORTAL WEBSITE-DAILY BASKET’. The mail seems impressive but at the same time, option availability for shopping forced to stick on the one we always use.
Anyways I am shopaholic and proud to be.. 

LOVE-LUST=> LIVE-IN......... VALENTINE?

Woah woah… love is all around me…. 
Nooo I am not in love.
But Valentine’s Day is around the corner. So most of the happening places are fully decorated in Delhi .

Not all only this, open the newspaper, you’ll see all the great offers like take your partner for holiday at great price….book your table …. Couple entry charges… and blah blahhhhhh…


Not only this even online, you open any site, all the flashy colored background showing all the red and pinky-pinky themes… oh man seriously, it is annoying man.

It was time, when Valentine’s Day was only celebrated in western country. But now it is celebrated like any other festival. Only difference is, this day is only for couples.
Valentine’s day is all about love, relationship, commitment and the love that we all want from a partner is not possible without both having the commitment  to try to make it last.
The oldest institution on earth concerning human relationships is marriage that has survived all odds all over the world. Despite doubts raised by people who suffer failure in marriage, strangely it is something that most aspire to reach at some point in their life. Those who fail once, wish to try it the second or even third time. I am not talking of western countries where celebrities get into multiple marriages for the sake of money offered for scoops.


So what is it that makes marriage desirable? Why not just live in together and walk away when it becomes inconvenient? Why get married and then suffer the trauma of divorce if you are incompatible? Why suffer idiosyncrasies of your partner? Why spend rest of your life with a person whose wavelength doesn’t match yours? Why travel half way to make up rather than walk away whenever you want? These choices are available in Live in relationships.

No one has complete control on things and situations around. This includes the choice to have a perfect and/or ideal mate. We would all like to have a person as our life-partner who is perfect in our eyes in all possible aspects. But is it actually possible? Isn't it only a wishful thought? And are we ourselves perfect?


Many people imagine that living together before marriage resembles taking a car for a test drive. The “trial period” gives people a chance to discover whether they are compatible. This analogy seems so compelling that people are unable to interpret the mountains of data to the contrary. 

Here’s the problem with the car analogy: the car doesn’t have hurt feelings if the driver dumps it back at the used car lot and decides not to buy it. The analogy works great if you picture yourself as the driver. It stinks if you picture yourself as the car. 
"Only Fools think in terms of negality", otherwise love is enough..

Oh Metro! stop snatching our purses.......

Travelling in Bus is not so happening thing for me ........ But I do have to travel sometimes when the situation is of paramount importance....I have been the one who has always avoided buses in DELHI.
Can’t imagine myself wrapped up in sweat-trickling, stinking arm-pits....  green house box....
I have always preferred metro as a more convenient option ...but its reputation is under the hammer now a days


The crowd has suddenly grown in numbers. A metro which was like a yawning HONEYMOON bed has suddenly seen a rush of people...Standing in the lines exposes you to rude, pushy generally older ones, who simply push their way ahead of you. Many a time feels like giving them back... (.Our Indian culture doesn't permit me to be disrespectful to our elder...and they  always benefit from this)....Survival of the fittest is the criteria to breathe inside....Oxygen is quite difficult to intake with so many people to absorb it...in such a consoled place...............



People have lost their values or they leave their head at homes....seats which are reserved for handicapped and women are preoccupied by the men who are strong enough to be pulled up by crane. Women are left standing with a heavy bag in one hand and a baby on her shoulder .Travelling with your girl is not the brightest of the idea...in this obnoxious crowd ( I say that from my experience).People are ready to grab their chances in a win-win situation. 


I don’t really rely on any public transportation in terms of security and protection. Not even this Metro. Recent incident taught me all. I lost my wallet in Metro; some jerk took out from my bag.


Arrgghhhh… I wanna kill that jerk whosoever did this.


You not only took my wallet but also all the important articles, which includes my pan card, licensee, atm card, sport club card and very important membership card, on which I sent so much to gain some point for discount but now all gone. 



Moreover, Delhi Police was as usual very corporative, it just that for logging one F.I.R., it took me 5 hours.. 
I reached office late with not so good mood. 
Anyways,, hope that jerk use some brain and sent back my wallet articles which are useless for him/her.
Figure crossed.

IS IT DESTINY OR IS IT CHOICE?

Every little girl dreams about her wedding day, complete with of a beautiful wedding dress and of course a perfect man by her side. 

Same for the lady i met recently. She is my cousin best friend. She is undoubtedly smart, beautiful and very loving women but sadly she is suffering from cancer that too last stage. She was just 4 year old when her parents got to know about her sickness. But her parents never gave up. They sent her to school, college but with extra care. 


And at last she got married in a beautiful dress and with a perfect man. 
But only drawback to her wedding was, her family never shared her health problem with the groom family. 
And this affected her wedding after 8 months, when she shared this with her husband and his family.
The male family was hurt and so was the girl. She never wanted to do this the family.
She got so much of love and affection. But the male family felt cheated and betrayed. 

Today when she wants to live her last few months with her husband and his family, they are not supporting her and on the other side she is suffering from so much pain & stress. She is a very strong woman but she needs strong support from her husband and her family. It’s time for her husband to support her during this painful phase, so that she can live her last few months with love and care.


All I can say, i felt bad .I feel compassionate for both the parties.. On one side the girl father did all wrong, and on other side her husband family has the right to think about their desire & their future as they are also equally hurt. 
I am grateful to have had the honor of writing this blog for her and for her husband.


Hope everything goes well ahead. 
Destiny!!!!! Choice!!!!!

God and FACEBOOK

You have showed me another side of me.

Another side I never thought I could be.

I wanna change, rearrange.

I know I can be something.

I know (I know, I know) I'm getting better.

You can say what you believe.

Tell me I'm not worth it, maybe I'd agree.

Well i know that it's just stones.

No they wont break my bones.

You can say it all you want.

I love myself today, no matter what you say.

I love myself today, and it feels so good.

There are people who are obviously using their profiles on networking sites to create an image. They are trying to show that they are happening people.

Some are simply irritated by all the drama on the web, I  know people who tweet every 20-30 minutes, and you know exactly when the got up because their first tweet of the day is posted, and then you know what they had for breakfast. A friend mine once tweeted that his relationship with his girl was over, that was even when before she got out of his car.

Breaking up with someone is not a hush-hush thing anymore, and with social networking websites, it's a war of inflated and hurt egos. "A friend, after his break-up started dating a someone else, this got the ex fuming and she too made a new boyfriend. And obviously everyone in the friends circle knew it was as if they were competing to put pictures with their new partners on their profiles.

Well, the verdict is out, time to tone it down a bit guys? Lol…..

I see girls taking constant pics of themselves, making what is quite honestly stupid poses with usually their lips pouted out. Am I the only one who finds this strange and quite honestly retarded?

Many females especially teenage females want attention. So they take pictures of themselves as a way to feel better. But what many teens do is go a step beyond taking photos. They not only take photos of themselves, but they share the photos with other peers, and they post on the internet. Many teen girls do this because they lack self esteem and they are looking for someone to confirm that they are indeed beautiful. Now there is nothing wrong with taking photos of yourself. But the problem only arises when you do it to get attention because you feel badly about yourself and you want someone to affirm you.

The height of self obsession:

An Egyptians blogger Aliaa Magda Elmahdy has become a household name in the middle east. She shared a global uproar after a friend posted a photo of her naked on Twitter. She first posted her pictures on her blog.

Previously god was always on our minds, it used to be mirror of own reflection but today facebook has become the new god, the FACE, the BOOK where everyone wants each moment of its FACE.

HUNTING…. KILLING.. AND NO SHAME..

Tiger our national animal is fighting for its life. From around 40000 at the turn of the last century, there are just 1411 left now.

As very few tigers are left in India and if we won’t act now, we could lose important part of our heritage forever.
Tigers are facing major population losses and extinction. Tigers are killed for sport, skins and body parts.

At the turn of the century, there were almost reportedly 40000 to 45000 tigers in India, but now there very few left. 


Tigers is the symbol of wilderness and well being of the eco system..


By saving tigers the entire wilderness ecosystem is conserved.


The tiger is not just a charismatic species. It’s not just a wild animal living in some forest either.
It is been unofficial stated that forest department is also involved in it. Not only that but also few well profiled people too. The Forest officials are wiping out all the evidence of poaching and taking bribe for the same. 


                                        HUNTING…. KILLING.. AND NO SHAME..


There are lot of NGO and individual who have been saving them society, Not to mention the Bachchan’s itself who himself involved to protect the species, Richard Branson has taken many step ahead to protect to the species, not only the tigers but other species as well. 

The tiger is a beautiful animal but it is also the indicator of the forest’s health.Saving the Tiger means we save the forest since tiger cannot live in places where trees have vanished and in turn secure food and water for all.


The Tiger this becomes the symbol for the protection of all species on our earth since it is at the top of the food chain. This is why we sometimes call the tiger, an apex predator, and an indicator of our ecosystem’s health.