Tuesday 10 January 2012

Oh Metro! stop snatching our purses.......


Travelling in Bus is not so happening thing for me ........ But I do have to travel sometimes when the situation is of paramount importance....I have been the one who has always avoided buses in DELHI.
Can’t imagine myself wrapped up in sweat-trickling, stinking arm-pits....  green house box....
I have always preferred metro as a more convenient option ...but its reputation is under the hammer now a days


The crowd has suddenly grown in numbers. A metro which was like a yawning HONEYMOON bed has suddenly seen a rush of people...Standing in the lines exposes you to rude, pushy generally older ones, who simply push their way ahead of you. Many a time feels like giving them back... (.Our Indian culture doesn't permit me to be disrespectful to our elder...and they  always benefit from this)....Survival of the fittest is the criteria to breathe inside....Oxygen is quite difficult to intake with so many people to absorb it...in such a consoled place...............



People have lost their values or they leave their head at homes....seats which are reserved for handicapped and women are preoccupied by the men who are strong enough to be pulled up by crane. Women are left standing with a heavy bag in one hand and a baby on her shoulder .Travelling with your girl is not the brightest of the idea...in this obnoxious crowd ( I say that from my experience).People are ready to grab their chances in a win-win situation. 


I don’t really rely on any public transportation in terms of security and protection. Not even this Metro. Recent incident taught me all. I lost my wallet in Metro; some jerk took out from my bag.


Arrgghhhh… I wanna kill that jerk whosoever did this.


You not only took my wallet but also all the important articles, which includes my pan card, licensee, atm card, sport club card and very important membership card, on which I sent so much to gain some point for discount but now all gone. 



Moreover, Delhi Police was as usual very corporative, it just that for logging one F.I.R., it took me 5 hours.. 
I reached office late with not so good mood. 
Anyways,, hope that jerk use some brain and sent back my wallet articles which are useless for him/her.
Figure crossed.


Monday 9 January 2012

IS IT DESTINY OR IS IT CHOICE?

Every little girl dreams about her wedding day, complete with of a beautiful wedding dress and of course a perfect man by her side. 


Same for the lady i met recently. She is my cousin best friend. She is undoubtedly smart, beautiful and very loving women but sadly she is suffering from cancer that too last stage. She was just 4 year old when her parents got to know about her sickness. But her parents never gave up. They sent her to school, college but with extra care. 


And at last she got married in a beautiful dress and with a perfect man. 
But only drawback to her wedding was, her family never shared her health problem with the groom family. 
And this affected her wedding after 8 months, when she shared this with her husband and his family.
The male family was hurt and so was the girl. She never wanted to do this the family.
She got so much of love and affection. But the male family felt cheated and betrayed. 


Today when she wants to live her last few months with her husband and his family, they are not supporting her and on the other side she is suffering from so much pain & stress. She is a very strong woman but she needs strong support from her husband and her family. It’s time for her husband to support her during this painful phase, so that she can live her last few months with love and care.


All I can say, i felt bad .I feel compassionate for both the parties.. On one side the girl father did all wrong, and on other side her husband family has the right to think about their desire & their future as they are also equally hurt. 
I am grateful to have had the honor of writing this blog for her and for her husband.


Hope everything goes well ahead. 
Destiny!!!!! Choice!!!!!