Tuesday, 18 October 2011

OVERCOMING ADDICTION


Addiction can also be viewed as a continued involvement with a substance or activity despite the negative consequences associated with it. Pleasure and enjoyment would have originally been sought; however, over a period of time involvement with the substance or activity is needed to feel normal.





People turn there habit into addiction and at later phase they got stuck in a disaster where there is no way out. 


It is the perception towards the object of addiction for an addict that he is not addicted. One has to change his/her perceptions towards life and things to change the addictions.




Perception of the object needs to be change. 


There are so many addiction of a human nature starting from fast food to alcohol or to sex…. 
Many people who struggle with drug and alcohol addiction may eventually wind up with an addiction of a life time damages the god gifted body and spirit.
Like Wine is statistically associated with a decrease in death due to cardiovascular events such as heart failure.
But over dose of anything is harmful..


ALCOHOL:
Consumption leads to stimulation of the nervous system where the body feels calm but since the few minutes are desire to the end up for few minutes, ended up getting addiction.



Sex.. 
Sex addicts engage in distorted thinking of ten rationalizing & justifying their behavior and blaming others for problems.


Sexual addiction also associated with risk taking. A person with a sex addiction engages in various forms of sexual activity, despite the potential for negative and/ or dangerous consequences. In addiction to damaging the addict’s relationships and interfering with his or her work and social life, a sexual addiction also puts the person at risk for emotional & physical inquiry.




Behaviors associated with sexual addiction:-
1. Compulsive masturbation
2. Multiple affairs
3. Multiple or anonymous sexual partners and/or one night stand
4. Consistent use of pornography
5. Unsafe sex
6. Exhibitionism
7. Phone or cyber sex
8. Obsessive dating through personal ads
9. Sexual harassment


A person with a sex addiction gains little satisfaction from the sexual activity & no emotional bond with his or her sex partners.
Problem of sex addiction often leads to feeling of guilt and shame. 




Smoking:


 You may love your life or you may hate it, but unless you are suicidal you wouldn't want to risk it. I hope you agree. So I guess we have already agreed upon something within such a short acquaintance, that's a good start.


Smoking is defined as the act of smelling or inhaling the smoke of a substance, mostly tobacco. There are many reasons for doing so, the most common being cultural reasons or peer pressure. Cigarettes, pipes and hookahs are the most popular methods of smoking and hence also the most injurious smoking elements for health.
The human body knows that smoking is injurious to health; therefore, it tries to counter it at the start. That is why coughing, sore throat, nausea and other negative feelings are aroused in the body when a person tries to smoke the first time. People start with one drag and end up into addiction.




Many people who struggle with smoke addiction may eventually wind up with an addiction of a life time damages the god gifted body and spirit, hard to get out of it.


For many people struggling with addiction, the biggest and toughest step toward recovery is the very first one: deciding to make a change. It’s normal to feel conflicted about giving up your drug of choice, even when you realize it’s causing problems in your life. Change is never easy—and committing to sobriety involves changing many things, including:


the way you deal with stress
who you allow in your life
what you do in your free time
how you think about yourself




You may wonder if you’re really ready for all that change or if you have what it takes to quit. It’s okay if you’re torn. Recovering from addiction is a long process, one that requires time, commitment, motivation, and support. As you contemplate your situation, the following tips can help you make the decision.


Gambling takes many forms from playing the lottery to betting on horses to high-stakes casino betting. Many people enjoy some form of gambling as a fun, but infrequent hobby or pastime. However, some suffer from a gambling addiction that can wreak havoc on their personal and financial lives. 


When a person suffers from a gambling addiction, there are fewer outward signs than other addictions. A gambling addict may feel depressed and suffer mood swings, but unless their financial situation is an open book to others, their problem may be severe before anyone notices. For this reason, gambling addiction is often referred to as a "hidden" addiction.


Unlike an average person gambling for fun, a person suffering from a gambling addiction does not know when to quit. They gamble more than they can afford to lose. They might gamble their rent or mortgage payment, their grocery money, or even their entire life savings.


A moderate addiction to money may not always be hurtful; but when taken in excess it is nearly always bad for the health.

Friday, 14 October 2011

Karva Chauth: fast from sunrise to moonrise


Karva chauth is an annual one-day festival celebrated by Hindu and some Sikh women in North India and parts of Pakistan in which married women fast from sunrise to moonrise for the safety and longevity of their husbands.


Today Live in relationship and easy separation, found a regular space & acceptance from Indian Society, may be due to High acceptance of western cultural.

Does the Karva Chauth importance is still the same in Indian society or people are just following it for the sake of it? Does the concept like Karva chauth is only followed in villages?

In today society where the relationship is not bound with any promises & commitment, the Separation, live in relationship rate have increased.


The patience level in a relationship is no longer there. 


People find it’s easy to move in & out from a relationship which has bought the commitment level down. Due to fast moving life, the long term relationship phase is not there.


In between all this, KARVA CHAUTH is still has the same charm and magic. Women still follow the same tradition of fast from sunrise to moonrise for the safety and longevity of their husbands.

It’s true the live-in relationship does exist in Indian society but it didn’t affect the true tradition of Karva Chauth, it still has the same spark and charisma.


The festival of Karwa Chauth is celebrated mostly by North India. This event is growing bigger with each passing day. In addition to the traditional items such as henna, beauty products and fashionable clothes, the demand of special eateries are also gearing up. Nowadays, Karwa Chauth is more of fun than a serious festival.


Thursday, 6 October 2011

ISLAND AS CHEAP AS HOUSE IN INDIA.


Greece is almost the synonymous with the word island.


With around 6000 islands in total, mostly privately owned, Greece is a land of private island paradise. Greece was a developed country with high standard of living and “very high” in Human Development Index.


Greece is facing economic hardships and has been defaulting on its loan for many years.



Greece main industry are tourism, shipping, industrial products, food & tobacco processing, textiles, chemical, metal products, mining & petroleum.


Greece also faced unemployment levels, an efficient bureaucracy, tax evasion & corruption.




After almost 15 years of stable economy growth, they again fell into the pond of recession due to high ratio of loans.


Now the conditions are so pathetic that the Greece government decided to sell all the islands and the luxury properties to erase some of its debt.


Earlier buying an island was the most difficult thing OR a most expensive dream. But now anyone can buy an island as low as 2 million dollars. For Indian who has dream of buying an Island then it is the right time to do so. Now buying an Island as cheap as a house in India, Life has changed so much.


However selling or buying an island is virtually impossible in this country, due to an elaborate maze of bureaucracy, which must be navigated at all governmental levels, plus military and religious regulations, decrees, laws, proclamations and a virtually non-existent land registry.

GOD BLESSES GREECE.

Saturday, 24 September 2011

2012 year of DOOM or year of BLOOM??


The world will change dramatically.
As the prediction says 2012, is the year of depression in terms of economy which will lead to disappointments, fear, stress and tension. 


The world will go through a disaster period. Economically the world will suffer from bankruptcy, Industrial slowdown & unemployment. So the astrologers’, astronomers’, numerology say to future in the same tone.













Every nation is suffering from inflation and the coming year shall be more depressing and complicated as the economy is taking tough to recover and shouting the sign of negativity. Everyone from Human being to animals shall be affected. 


No one can escape from this wind…
The fear of losing job will lead to mental stress, tension and frustration.


Frustration of not getting what you exactly deserve will lead to more pain and stress among youth. 



Prediction to be believed, 2012 is the year for biggest natural disaster. Don’t know about the natural disaster but for sure there would be a global disaster, economy fall down.


Though India is emerging as one of the most powerful country in the soon after China, but India will also suffer from same pain. 


Many people will lose their job; industries will go through a down fall, bankruptcy will touch its peak. 


The world will change dramatically in 2012.
Year of doom….

So is the one part of it. 
The change of the Yuva is taking place so the shell of sculptures the magnetic field will evolve to help human conscious to another dimension. 
The aspect of which is different to place IN WORDS.


Life has no purpose, but it has essence to find adventures that why we all are here. 
So lets not think of DOOM & just believe that life will find all  solutions. 



Tuesday, 20 September 2011

Neighbourhood Crorepati


KBC season 1 started in year 2000 hosted by none other than solus personality AMITABH Bachchan.

It was big hit that time and today also it is following the same track.

Now this year is the 5th season of the show and it is still the best game show ever. From last 2 seasons the show has change the concept a bit and popularity has also gone up among the audience. It is giving a room to everyone starting from Lower crust to the upper crust.

Not only that the show is nationally famous but also internationally. He is ideal of million people around the world.
Amitabh Bachachan is an international icon of our nation.

Off course Amitabh Bachchan is at his best. Amitabh Bachchan age is beyond recognition, with same welcome smile and affection.

A name with charm, humility, determination and perseverance has undoubtedly gone to him. Amitabh Bachchan the Shanhenshah of bollywood Industry to host KBC-5 2011.

Amitabh has already hosted KBC other seasons but now another one with him is the best for him and the viewers as well.

He is the master of the Hindi Language & the voice of Amitabh always great to hear.

His CARE free tone just not make you smile but give the best feeling in the world.

People all around the world sit infront of the TV as soon as THE shanhenshah of bollywood start the show KAUN BANEGA CROREPATI.

GRACE… STYLE….CARE FREE ATTITUDE… just make the people go mad all over around. He is simple the Best.
The season one was gracefully taken off air with a promise by Mr.Bachchan of returning. And today in 2011, he is hosting the 5 season, hope this continue for long-long time.

Show must GO ON AND ON…. 

Tuesday, 13 September 2011

Where is Tom and Jerry , kids ?


Teenagers and adolescents sneaking a peek in the bad world through the TV is the major focus of its ill effects on the youth nowadays. And it is indeed true. So the overall effect would have to be this itself, as we live in a world full of youth population. And to stop, or to even begin to reduce this, the young people must understand that watching is one thing and implementing what you've seen on the screen is a totally different one. And it has bad results too. So these people have just got to stop copying celebs and involve themselves in some other, better activities like reading books or going out with friends, instead of sitting in front of TV all day and grabbing all unproductive things.
What all we can see now days?


Channel promoting violence.


Language 
Not creating a positive response or impact


There has been a subtle (or perhaps not so subtle) shift in the tone of both the shows and their characters.
The tone of the newer teen goes beyond excessive gas jokes. the same proliferation of new channels that provides additional educational opportunities also provides opportunities for children to be exposed to more inappropriate content than ever before.




Many of the shows now rely on constant male/female tension and the guest for a date to center the plot around.
The changes on the Disney channel shows, their content; even actors themselves have been slow and subtle over the past few years, but there is a definite loss of innocence that is creeping into many of the CARTOON channel shows that too in the most popular shows.


The addiction of TV viewing & most children are victims of that. The other is the content, mostly based on picking or hitting at each other and others which would guide children for quarrels & fights as normal behavior. 


Educative cartoons are rare these days, guess some better ones.


It is not uncommon for children to have access to movies and programs intended to be viewed only by mature audiences. While technology has been put into place to help conscientious parents censor the channels and shows their children can access, these methods are far from fool proof and they are only as effective as the parents who choose whether or not to utilize them. This unfettered access to adult material appears to manifest itself in a variety of different ways but most people would agree today’s children are more aware of adult themes (violence) at an earlier age than ever before.


Parents are ultimately responsible for monitoring what their children watch on TV, but if kids aren’t safe with family oriented powerhouse like the DISNEY Channel anymore, then where are they safe?


VOILENCE..VULGUR LANGUAGE….NEGATIVE IMPACT...!!

Wednesday, 7 September 2011

Bond comes again after 23 years


Bond comes again after 23 years

Why everybody wants to come here from cafes to big brands?
Development…
Fashion….
Power…..
Automobiles….
Education……
India is forming a developing path and moving steadily towards becoming international….
Everybody wants to come here from cafés to big fashion, brands to automobiles to infrastructure.
Infrastructure in India is at a stage where the youth can find the biggest companies developing.

India has well-developed transport network comprising rail, coastal shipping, air transport etc.
Today, India is one of the most exciting emerging markets in the world. Skilled managerial and technical manpower that match the best available in the world and a middle class whose size exceeds the population of the USA or the European Union, provide India with a distinct cutting edge in global competition.

Fashion:
Everyone has found its space in retail sector of India.

In the last few years Indian Fashion is witnessing a rapid growth with each passing era. In fact, there is a shift in fashion and trends nearly every six months. This has been a prominent part of the Indian Fashion  industry that is rising by leaps and bounds.

The existing qush of the economic growth in India has had a major impact on the changes in fashion. The awareness and purchasing power of the middle class has resulted in a sudden boom.

Starting from Armani to Louis Vuitton,  the global scenario in the economic perspective is yet another influence that has altered Indian fashion. International brands entering the Indian market and selling at economical prices is improving the growth of brand awareness in India in a big way.

Automobiles: whether it’s Rolls Royce everything is available across the road in India subcontinent. Whatever globally launched at the same time it’s launched in India also.

The Automotive industry in India is one of the largest in the world and one of the fastest growing globally.


Brand from all over the world coming to India with the youth of this sub continents
The capital state out and defining itself LOS ANGELES/LONDON of the world.